🧒 What Do You Want Your Kids to Be?
Doctor? Engineer? Artist? Leader?
Happy? Confident? Kind?
We all dream of bright futures for our children. But somewhere along the way, a quiet truth gets lost:
👉 It’s not about what we want them to be.
It’s about who they already are.
Children Aren’t Projects
They’re not blank slates.
They’re not extensions of us.
They’re not vessels to fill with ambition.
They come into the world with their own spark —
Your job isn’t to shape it, but to protect it.
Support, Not Script
Help them:
🧠 Explore their curiosity
💛 Embrace their emotions
🗣️ Develop their voice
💪 Fail, fall, and get back up
The goal is not to direct their journey — It’s to walk beside them, noticing who they’re becoming.
Final Thought
So ask yourself:
Do I want my child to meet my expectations —
or do I want them to meet themselves fully?
Because the most powerful thing you can do as a parent
is not to create your child’s identity…
…but to help them discover it.
With patience. With presence. With love
